Continuing with the list of details to be addressed, you can not forget...
#4: In an effort to save money, I have chosen not to arrange for special transportation. My fiance and I will be driven to the Historic Shelton in separate cars to keep the tradition of not seeing the bride before the ceremony. After all of the day's events, we will leave in one of our own vehicles to the hotel and eventually the airport.
#5: I chose to use an online gift registry called http://www.myregistry.com/ to allow my guests the option of shopping from their own homes. I also registered at Bed Bath and Beyond and Target.
#6: As for my photographer, I chose to utilize my contacts with the Mass Communications department to book a photography student. I figured that it would be cheaper, allow the students to build their professional portfolio, and it would be easier to book them at the last minute.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Majorly Important Minor Issues part 1
First I must appologize for my absence, there has been so much to research, that I have neglected to update the information here. I have many updates to cover, so lets get started!
#1: I was lucky to find a reception site that has an all inclusive package. My budget is easy to tally up because many of the small details are included in the price. The goal is to spend less than $10,000, hopefully closer to $7,000.
#2: My reception site's package includes a personalized music playlist from an IPOD. I was able to choose what songs I wanted from a list of 3,500 songs. My reception package also includes my flowers. I decided to go with a traditional flower, the rose, for my bouquet and the bouttoniers. The centerpeices are similar to the bouquet with small votive candles randomly placed throughout the tables.
#3: When getting married, the most important details are the legal details, even though they may not be the most fun. Remember you must get a marriage license. The laws differ from state to state, but in Idaho it is rather simple. It costs $28 and both the bride and groom must be present with valid drivers licenses. There is no wait time, so it can be purchased on the day of the ceremony, although I would recomend getting it before your big day. Other states may require a blood test, or may require the purchase of the license a month ahead of time.
Also remember to schedule your officiant. If you have religious ties, then the presiding church leader can perform the ceremony. I have chosen to use a judge from the local courthouse. I don't know anyone personally that could perform the ceremony, so it was rather simple for me to just pick someone.
** After your big day, don't forget to officially fill out the proper change of name documents! **
#1: I was lucky to find a reception site that has an all inclusive package. My budget is easy to tally up because many of the small details are included in the price. The goal is to spend less than $10,000, hopefully closer to $7,000.
#2: My reception site's package includes a personalized music playlist from an IPOD. I was able to choose what songs I wanted from a list of 3,500 songs. My reception package also includes my flowers. I decided to go with a traditional flower, the rose, for my bouquet and the bouttoniers. The centerpeices are similar to the bouquet with small votive candles randomly placed throughout the tables.
#3: When getting married, the most important details are the legal details, even though they may not be the most fun. Remember you must get a marriage license. The laws differ from state to state, but in Idaho it is rather simple. It costs $28 and both the bride and groom must be present with valid drivers licenses. There is no wait time, so it can be purchased on the day of the ceremony, although I would recomend getting it before your big day. Other states may require a blood test, or may require the purchase of the license a month ahead of time.
Also remember to schedule your officiant. If you have religious ties, then the presiding church leader can perform the ceremony. I have chosen to use a judge from the local courthouse. I don't know anyone personally that could perform the ceremony, so it was rather simple for me to just pick someone.
** After your big day, don't forget to officially fill out the proper change of name documents! **
Thursday, October 16, 2008
The Guest List and Invitations
When making the guest list, give your self time to think of everyone that is important to you and your fiance. Also remember that the reception site might limit the number of guests that can attend. On the flip side, you should send out more invitations than what you are really expecting to come.
For my invitations I chose to announce the date through my personalized wedding web page.
My homepage address is http://www.ewedding.com/sites/pokybride08. This web page allows me to post a greeting on the opening page to inform my guests of the wedding plans and provides an online RSVP service. I have full control of the pages that are displayed and can set them as public, private, a mixture of the two, or disable the pages I don't intend to use. I can upload engagement pictures and receive emails when guests leave comments or RSVP.
There are many personalized wedding websites out there that offer a variety of options, much like http://www.eweddings.com/, that may be free or may charge a small monthly fee.
For my invitations I chose to announce the date through my personalized wedding web page.
My homepage address is http://www.ewedding.com/sites/pokybride08. This web page allows me to post a greeting on the opening page to inform my guests of the wedding plans and provides an online RSVP service. I have full control of the pages that are displayed and can set them as public, private, a mixture of the two, or disable the pages I don't intend to use. I can upload engagement pictures and receive emails when guests leave comments or RSVP.
There are many personalized wedding websites out there that offer a variety of options, much like http://www.eweddings.com/, that may be free or may charge a small monthly fee.
The Location Has Been Set!
I have chosen the Historic Shelton located in Idaho Falls for both the Ceremony and Reception sites.
The Shelton's Reception Packages were just too good to pass up!
All total I will be paying $350 for the Ceremony, and $4750 for the Platinum Reception Package (click for the full list of all the perks!)
The location will include more than just the building for my big day! It includes:
The Shelton's Reception Packages were just too good to pass up!
All total I will be paying $350 for the Ceremony, and $4750 for the Platinum Reception Package (click for the full list of all the perks!)
The location will include more than just the building for my big day! It includes:
- The Historic Shelton all day with time scheduled for pre-bridal pictures
- Plastic cups and plates for the reception
- 150 personalized colored napkins
- Tables and chairs and the decor for the entire building that match your chosen colors
- Two Servers to assist and cut the cake as well as an event announcer
- Personalized cake knife set
- Wedding cake topper
- Garter
- Guest Book
- Personalized Chamgagne Flutes
- 75 scented candles for wedding favors
- Dance Floor
- 22 inch TV with DVD Player
- Music set up with a personalized song list
- Flowers
- Centerpieces
- Beverage Bar
Tackeling #7: The Dress!
I have successfully chosen my dress! It is from David's Bridal model numer T9466.
David's Bridal won't let me copy and paste their pictures, so I will have to paint you a picture.
My gown is a strapless fitted bodice down to the thigh where the skirt flairs out into tiers of lace. The train is a chapel train, so it isn't too long.
David's Bridal won't let me copy and paste their pictures, so I will have to paint you a picture.
My gown is a strapless fitted bodice down to the thigh where the skirt flairs out into tiers of lace. The train is a chapel train, so it isn't too long.
I don't feel that I have done the image justice, so click here to see: My Beautiful Big White Dress!!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Things NOT to Forget
According to http://www.ourweddingday.com/, here is a list of tasks that must be completed prior to your wedding day. I have looked over the list and narrowed it down to the absolute necessities for planning a wedding in only two weeks. The full list is available at ourweddingday.com.
Remember to:
Remember to:
- Set the date
- Set your budget
- Guest List
- Ceremony & Reception Sites
- Schedule Officiant
- Set up your personal website
- THE DRESS!
- Florist
- Wedding Cake
- Photographer/ Videographer
- Music
- Gift Registry
- Transportation
- Stationary/ Invitations
- Tuxedos
- Attendants Attire
- Send out invitations
- Guestbook & Wedding Party/ Guest Favors
- Marriage License
- Change of Name Documents
Friday, October 10, 2008
Keeping track of my time
Ok, so planning this wedding is all about multi tasking and working online!
I have set up accounts with:
David's Bridal
OurWeddingDay.com
Brides.com
MyRegistry.com
So far the hours I have logged are:
Dress hunting online: 2.5 hours
Location: 4 hours
Remember that just dress shopping online wont cut it. Unless your dress is only available online, you need to make a trip to your dress store as soon as possible.
I have set up accounts with:
David's Bridal
OurWeddingDay.com
Brides.com
MyRegistry.com
So far the hours I have logged are:
Dress hunting online: 2.5 hours
Location: 4 hours
Remember that just dress shopping online wont cut it. Unless your dress is only available online, you need to make a trip to your dress store as soon as possible.
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